How to Play Hard to Get - The #1 Key

Think about it, men accuse us of playing hard to get all the time. They think we are playing some sort of game. Really now? It's no game. I am not so sure about all women, but there are some who see their heart as something special and really aren't so keen to just give it away to the first guy that pays her a little attention.

How many times has a man come on full speed ahead, we match his pace, fall rapidly into the relationship and he up and disappears? He says it's not you, it's me. You know the song and dance I am sure. We have all danced that dance. Girl you just gave your heart away too fast. He didn't value it, nor did you. You did not play hard to get, more like easy to get.

Let's take football, even though I am not all that knowledgeable on the subject, I think you will get my point. This team plays hard, they want to win of course. They are headed for a championship. They play a mediocre team and win, yes they are happy. They celebrate. It's all good.

Next in line on their way to the championship is that undefeated team. Prior to the game they are more nervous, the pressure is on. Fast forward it's a long hard game. Many edge of your seat moments. In the final minutes they score the winning touch down. Wow! They are beyond happy, they are ecstatic. Lots of celebrating and they may talk about this day for a long long time.

Which win brought the team more satisfaction? The easy win or the hard one? The one with the higher degree of difficulty of course. Men value what they work hardest for. Do you really thing they view women much differently? They don't. They want the woman who not just any man can have.

It takes a great team to win that championship. It takes a great man to win your heart. If you just hand it over to him with no resistance, he isn't getting anything special. Ever seen the face of a man in love when he is explaining the perils he had to go through to get that woman? You see pride in his face.

Being hard to get is really about being selective as to who and how you give your heart away. It's nothing about game playing. You heart is precious. Not just any man gets it. The man that gets it will be special and he is going to feel it. If you can make a man feel special, well you got him sista.

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Hard To Get, Easy to be With

Playing hard to get is not a game, it is simply a woman with a full life that puts herself and her needs first. This confident woman would never dream of putting anything on hold for a man. She is not the woman waiving her arms shouting "pick me, pick me". She is the woman who calls her own shots. This says "I am secure". The best way to kill a man's attraction is to be the opposite of secure which is needy and clingy. Hard to get is a positive attitude that inspires a man to fall all over himself to be with you.

A woman who is hard to get but easy to be with has shown a man that she is happy with him but can be just as happy having nothing to do with him. This intrigues him and this is when he won't leave her side. Hard to get women don't wait by the phone, they don't change plans to fit his schedule, they don't take late night calls or last minute dates. They have their boundaries and standards set and this earns his respect. She is happy in her life and a happy woman is very sexy indeed.

Think of it as you are the prize. There are different kinds of prizes. There are the ones in the cracker jack box. That is the easy prize. All they have to do to get that is open the box and dump it and there is the prize. What happens to this prize? It usually gets tossed in the trash or discarded somewhere and forgotten. If they run across this prize later down the road, chances are good they won't even remember where it came from. That is easy, not playing hard to get at all.

Then there is the prize he had to work for. His brand new BMW, or Sports Car. He had to work long hours and save for years for this prize. What does he do with this? He doesn't let anyone else drive it, he keeps it clean and under his garage, take photographs of it and treats it with love because he values it, he had to work for it.

So playing hard to get is really easy. Just live a wonderful life, put yourself first and he will follow you. As long as you view yourself as the prize, he will view you that way as well and he will enjoy putting in the extra effort, after all he wants the prize.