Are You His Dream Girl or His Yes Girl

Have you seen the older movie Runaway Bride. Remember she didn't even know how she liked her eggs. She had been conforming for so long to what she thought the men would like that she herself didn't know anymore what she liked. This is a yes woman. A dream girl knows what she likes and isn't scared to voice it. Men find this quality very sexy by the way.

A yes woman often operates out of fear. Fear that she will some how lose her man if she doesn't work to please him. A yes woman often puts her friends on hold for her man. I know you know or have been this woman. The woman who stops going out with her friends and devotes all of her time to her new man in her life. She frees up her schedule to accommodate him. She tells her friend she can go out with them if her man doesn't call or has to work or something.

A dream girl won't do this. She maintains her life and doesn't put it on hold for a man. She can involve him, but not at the expense of her own life. She doesn't sacrifice her life for the sake of a man. The man is an addition to her life, not the center of her universe.

Yes women often spend a lot of time doing things for their men. In the meantime, rarely is it returned. This causes a cycle. She does even more to earn his affection, and he returns it even less and the resentment starts to set into her heart. She then voices how she does so much and he does little. He then feels like he isn't making her happy and the relationship starts to spiral down hill.

If you are going out of your way to please a man, you are fast becoming his yes girl. If you are doing household chores, running errands for him, you are setting him up to take you for granted. This is not a dream girl. Dream girls often have the men running errands for them instead. A dream girl inspires the man to please her and understands that to be able to please her is most of what is needed to please him. Men love to make their women happy. Making his woman happy is what makes a man feel like a man. Why on earth would you want to upset this balance and focus on pleasing him?

A yes girl puts a burden on her man unknowingly. A dream girl  inspires him and makes him happy.

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Do You Intimidate Men

I am writing on this topic as it comes up often in a forum that I own and I have given it a lot of thought. There was a time in my life that I did think I was intimidating to men. Was I actually? In hindsight, no. I was just not as approachable as I am today. Today I don't intimidate men and let me elaborate more. A few thoughts below which could lead you to buy into that myth that men are often intimidated by women.

• Men rarely approach you when you are out
• Men don't initiate conversations with you at public places like a grocery store
• Men email you a few times on a dating site and disappear
• Men hint at dates and don't follow through
• Men flirt but don't ask you out
• Men live in your phone but won't step out
• Men flake on your dates
• You can't seem to get close to a man or he won't open up like you wish he would

If you can relate to any of these, you may think or feel that men are intimidated by you or women in general. Maybe you are super attractive, or maybe successful and you think this may turn them off or intimidate them, but that is not the case. It has nothing to do with these things.
I am going to bring up that feminine grace thing again. That woman, and you probably know one or two that just draws men in like a magnet, she has that intangible quality called feminine grace. That something about her. She is constantly being approached by all sorts of men. She does not intimidate men, she draws them in naturally
Below are some clues you have this quality.

• Men even ones that know they are out of your league approach you any way
• Men of all ages, from 18 to 85 flirt with you
• Men ask you out and put effort into impressing you, not the other way around
• A man will carry on a conversation with you online dating for weeks, patiently waiting for a date.
• Men rarely flake on you, it they say they will call they do, it they make a date they will keep it
• You rarely wonder where you stand with a man or how he feels.

If the above things apply to you, no need to read any further, if they don't well it's time to figure out that feminine grace thing. It's not about looking hot, having your nails all done and strutting in high heals and a great outfit. Those things are nice, but they are not what attracts a man.

If you can go out with your girlfriend who is dressed to the nines and you are in a tee shirt and jeans and still get more attention, sister you got it, the femine grace It's in your attitude. We spend so much time working on the outer part of us so often. This is not where the feminine grace comes from. It's in the way you walk, talk, carry yourself and how open you really appear to others. You draw all sorts of people to you, men and women. It's something about the way you make people feel. If you feel you are intimidating men, well that's not it, you aren't making them feel the way a man needs to feel to build attraction for you.

Tired of being passed by? Want to turn into that woman that men just adore and are drawn to. If men aren't approaching you or if your current guy isn't giving you the attention you desire, you might want to make some changes before that woman, the one with that feminine grace comes along and snatches him up.  Learn about the WOMEN MEN ADORE.

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How To Keep Your Boyfriend Interested

How do you keep him interested in you become his girlfreind is really not that difficult. I think we get scared because of past experiences. Most of us have been dumped or just had a man disappear on us. It's not fun, that is for sure, but it doesn't mean every man will do this. Still you can take preventive measures to keep him interested in you.

Think about when you first met. What was it about you that he found so exciting. One of the biggest mistakes women make is they change after they get the guy. The fun flirty girl he first met just vanishes. Guys like fun girls, so if you are going to keep him interested, you have to remain the fun girl. Leave the drama behind.

Second fatal mistake women make is trying to change him. They start making suggestions to him how to do things or what he should be doing. Some women even try to change their boyfriends style of dress. Men crave acceptance. If you try to change him, he isn't going to feel very accepted.

Whatever you do, don't mother him. That means no bed time check ins, no doing his laundry or trying to hard to please him. This is not why he chose you for a girlfriend I am sure. Men like sexy women and if you start acting like his mother, you aren't going to be very sexy to him.

If you are going to keep him interested, and you insist on doing domesticated things for him, involve him in it. If you are cooking dinner for him, make sure he is present when you are doing all the work. Don't just do it and have him over to eat. Let him see you in action, and it doesn't hurt to look sexy while doing this. I once had a man tell me I was so sexy with my hair everywhere and covered in flour. Let him participate and experience these things with you, don't do it all for him.

If you are wondering how to keep your boyfriend interested remember this. Men love to be needed. I don't mean as an emotional sounding board. They like to do things to help you, they are fixers. Let them. It makes them feel important and makes them feel like men. Let him kill the bug, change the lightbulb you can't reach, fix your dryer. Always show appreciation for these things by smiling and saying thank you.

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