The Charms of Southern Women - It's About Frying Chicken

Ask most Western Men and they most all will agree. There is something about the Southern Women. It's not that we are superior. I think we have a reputation made by many things. The movie Gone With The Wind for starters. The role we had to play and the obstacles we had to overcome during the Civil War is yet another thing in history that adds to our charms. 

Southern women are also known for their cooking. Now you may be wondering how this relates to our charms, so let me explain. We can fry some chicken and make those home made biscuits and gravy that not many a beau will walk away from. The key is this in the south. Knowing when to fry a chicken and when not too.

I have a girlfriend who had met a great guy. They had been on 5 dates and things were going well. She invited him over for dinner. She decided to impress him with her home cooking and fry him some chicken with all the fixens. Frying Chicken by the way takes time, and effort, lots of it. He should be honored right? Wrong! Sure he ate it, he told her it was wonderful, he got seconds, she offered to fix him a plate to go. He said no thank you. He also never called her back. Why?
While she was frying that chicken, he was thinking, wow, this woman is ready for marriage. I bet she has the dress already picked out. She is going to tie me down. In the beginning of dating, men just want to relax and aren't always thinking about a relationship yet. She blew it by frying her chicken too soon. She would have been better off to let him know in a subtle way that she could fry chicken, and let him wonder why she wasn't frying it for him.

Southern women say please, thank you, sir and mam. We can offer a glass of sweet ice tea to every man. Offering ice tea is fine. Frying chicken for him is not. I relate the stages of dating to frying chicken. We all have a chicken somewhere. Be it at the grocery store, the freezer, wherever. One of the charms of the Southern Woman is her ability to not only say please and thank you, but also no thank you. Knowing when to fry chicken is just one of the many things us southern woman understand.

Southern Women have many characteristics that they are famous for. All women posses these traits, they just haven't tapped into them yet. Learn the allure and charms of southern woman and how they get and keep their men.