How Do I Know If He Loves Me

I suppose I could start this post with, well if you have to ask "How do I know if he loves me", then he must not be in love.  I do realize though that many women are confused on this topic.  They get mixed signals or what they interpret as mixed signals and analyze it to death.  Does he love me?  Is he falling in love with me?  He told me this and he said that.  What does it mean?

First it's about actions actions actions.  Words really are easy to say.  Men are also taught to tell women what they want to hear.  Does he back up his words with actions is the key here.  When he says he will call, he does.  When he asks you out, he follows through and doesn't leave you guessing.  If you want to know if he loves you or not, watch his actions.

A man in love goes out of his way to make his woman happy.  He may give up a night with the guys or a sporting event to go shopping with you instead.  It was his idea.  If you have to badger him, it doesn't count.  He wants to spend time with you.  He makes the effort to make sure it happens.  He includes you in his life, family and friends. 

He is proud of you and hides nothing about you.  He may even be proud that you have your girly stuff at his house and doesn't chase after you to make sure you leave no evidence behind.  It's okay to keep a box of tampons under his bathroom sink.  He actually welcomes it. 

If you are taking a man's words and tearing them apart trying to figure out how he feels or how to know he loves me, you are wasting your time.  It's not in his kiss.  It's not in the great sex, it's in his actions.

Does He Love Me?

A lot of women really struggle with this.  How to know if their men love them or not.  To me it's self explanatory, you just know this.  To others it may not be so clear.  I get asked this question a lot by women.  How to know if their guy loves them or is in love with them.  I realize that the answer, you just know doesn't always work so I am going to break it down further.  There are ways to know if he loves me or not.

If you find that your guy chooses to stay home with you when you are sick as opposed to his regular sporting event, it's pretty clear he loves you.  If he is more focused on your happiness and well being than his own, you can bet he loves you.  This isn't to mean he neglects himself, but he chooses you over other activities of his own free will, not because you coerced him or guilted him into it.

If he protects you and provides for you, he loves you.  A man will share his last dime with the woman he loves, this is a fact.  He won't want her to do without.  He wants her comfort above his own.

If a guy lets you keep your feminine product in his bathroom, he loves you.  If he is suddenly proud of having Tampax under the sink, you got him. 

If a guy starts taking better care of himself, that is a sure sign he loves you.  A man wants to be his best for the woman he loves.  He will start to think about long term, financially, physically, in every way.

He will go out of his way if he loves you.  He will get up and go get you ice cream if you have a craving.  He will fly to see her.  He will go above and beyond with little ways to make you happy.

If he is willing to do something out of character for his woman, that too is a sign he loves her.  Lets say he is a manly man and all of a sudden he is willing to let you give him a facial or a manicure.  Maybe he never wanted children, but with this woman it wouldn't matter if he had a dozen.

The bottom line is if you have to ask if he loves you, then you aren't feeling it for some reason.  It may be you or it may be him.  It could be your own insecurity or you could just have the wrong man.  It's difficult sometimes to determine because men are so different than we are.  Understanding how they think is a huge help in deciphering the mystery as to does he love me or not.

WHAT IS HE THINKING?

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