How To Flirt With Men!

How to Flirt with Men, oh what fun! Do you know how to flirt with men or does the thought of it give you a case of the nerves? Men absolutely love to be flirted with. I have been with my guy friends and a woman approaches. After she left, he asked, Is she flirting with me? He was excited! If you can flirt with men, well you can make his day that is for sure.

Flirting with men comes natural to some, but not all. I have women constantly contact me asking me how or what I would have said in a given situation. It's because I am one of the naturals, most of the time. We all have our days. I think the key lies really in being happy and that radiating from you. Happy people just naturally attract others into their space.

Once upon a time I was very shy and somewhat insecure. I got tired of it though. I was attractive, but being attractive may get a man's attention, but it's not what keeps it. It was by chance alone I think that I got asked out and even had relationships. Oh if I knew then what I know now, I would have been quite a man magnet. I have learned the art of how to flirty with men.


Flirting with Body Language


With men, 90% of your flirting should be with your body language.  After all they really are visual creatures.. Men don't respond to words, they really don't. Take the picture to the right. Notice how she is looking over her shoulder. This is powerful. Men are captivated by innocence, and she has that innocent look on her face.

Obvious, bold flirty moves aren't that affective. It doesn't reach a man on his subconscious level. That is why your posture, your walk, the way you stand and sit are so important. You walk or posture alone can determine if a man sees you as approachable. Shoulders back, relaxed, standing or sitting straight not slouched is how you want to be.

Lets say you are at a bar chatting with a guy on your left. Turn your body into his slightly. Cross your right leg over your left leg slowly and have your right foot almost, but not quite brush his outer calf. He will notice and he won't know why. Reach over and lightly touch his lower left arm and smile, then move it away. These are subconscious triggers that tell him there is a woman sitting next to him that finds him attractive. It's all about how you make him feel.

Another powerful tip that does have to do with words is about one word you can use to get his attention. That word is his own name. Have you ever heard that nothing is sweeter from the lips of another than the sound of your own name. It's true. Call him by name. If you don't do this, you are missing out on something very powerful. If it feels uncomfortable for you, practice it. Call everyone by name when conversing. When my girlfriends call me, I always answer the phone with something like, "Well hello Susie Q". It's second nature to me now.

That one sentence I just mentioned can open a door. If you don't know his name, find it out. Next time you see him, just say, "Well hello Sam". Very effective and disarming, especially if he knows he didn't tell you his name.



Flirty Examples:


I am a moderator on a women's forum. We brainstormed some of our best flirting techniques, and I am going to share a few.

Smile at him.

Look him in the eyes when putting on lip gloss. No chap stick please, but lip gloss. Chap stick is masuline.

Tilt your head slightly sideways when looking at him, touch your hair, not twirl, but touch briefly

If you are walking beside him, tug on his sleeve, lean your head towards his shoulder

A really bold but very affective tip here if you have the opportunity, bend over in front of them. This one triggers his imagination into over drive.

The 3 to 5 second eye contact. Look into his eyes for 5 seconds and then look away shyly.

Toss your head back while laughing.

If you are on the phone with him, paint brief visuals for him. I just got out of a bubble bath. Can I call you back, I just got out of the shower.

These are just a few flirting tips you can put to use right now, today. Flirting is an art. If you can flirt with a man, then you know how to make a man feel like a man and that is what it is all about. You want to accentuate his masculine tenancies and play up your feminine. Men love it. It makes them feel attractive and desirable and who doesn't want to feel that?

The Woman Men Adore! Be His Dreamgirl!

A dream girl is the kind of woman men adore. She inspires a man to want to be with her, spend time with her, respect her, possibly take her to forever. She does this with a feminine grace that is hard for a man to resist. She is fun, playful, has boundaries and does not badger or nag to get what she needs out of a relationship. She knows her value. She doesn't settle for men who treat her badly or keep her guessing. This is the woman men adore!

Many think that I am talking about playing games here when I talk about being his dream girl. It's not a game. It boils down to being true to self. It's about putting your own heart first because when you do this, you show him how to treat you. Also when you treat yourself well, he knows you will most likely treat him well too!

Many think that I am talking about playing games here when I talk about being his dream girl. It's not a game. It boils down to being true to self. It's about putting your own heart first because when you do this, you show him how to treat you. Also when you treat yourself well, he knows you will most likely treat him well too!

How do you become this kind of woman? What is it that men really want from women and what is it about one woman that has him pining away while he hardly notices other women? What makes one a woman men adore and never want to leave? How do you get this kind of feminine grace that draws men like moths to flames?

What Makes a Man Fall in Love

A man doesn't fall in love with the woman he can live with. A man falls in love with the woman he can't live with out.

If you think it's the things you do that he can't live without, you might want to reconsider. It's not really the nice things you do for for a man that makes a man fall in love. Being good to a man simply isn't the key ingredient. So many women make their mistake here. They give and give hoping it will endear them to the man. They bend over backwards pleasing him. This isn't what makes a man fall in love. This is what makes you a doormat. A woman willing to sacrifice of herself to please another just isn't attractive, she is convenient at the most.

It's the woman that challenges him that men fall in love with. It's the woman who stands up for herself with feminine grace and feminine elegance that wins his heart. The woman that will show him with ease that she will not be a doormat. Men like to make women happy. It makes them feel good and makes them feel valued. Men fall in love with how you make them feel. If they can make you happy, they feel good. Think Tarzan running through the jungle pounding his chest and you get my drift.

If you are bending over backwards to please him, doing all the giving, you are in a sense depriving him. Learning to receive is so important. A woman that can gracefully receive from her man is a woman that men adore. Things as simple as a compliment for example. When he compliments you, do you deny the compliment or thank him authentically? If he offers to do something for you do you accept or tell him no thank you, I can do that? The natural role of the man really is to give and the woman's is to receive.

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It's not the things you do that make a man with you. It's the way you acknowledge, appreciate and accept the things he does that makes him fall in love with you.

How To Flirt With Your Boyfriend Tips!

Flirting is fun and it's a great way to build attraction, yet few know how to do it effectively.  Most go about it blatant, not understanding that less is really more.  Flirting should spark their imagination and peek their curiosity.  I will share a few tips that will stir his heart and endear you to his heart.

1.  Talking sofly, so that he has to lean in to hear you.  Whisper in his ear.

1.  Pull on his sleeve when walking beside him.  A gently tug.  This one works on him on a subconscious level.  Done with a slight laughter, even more effective.

2.  When the opportunity presents itself, lean into him with you head slightly on his shoulder briefly.  Maybe again you are walking and he says something sweet, lean into him with head on shoulder and just sigh or say Aw.  This activates his natural protection mode.

3.  Look at him from over your shoulder, that looking back look when you can.  This is powerful.

4.  When sitting beside him, cross the opposite leg and barely brush his upper calf with your foot. Also angle yourself towards him a bit.

5.  Answer the phone with "well hello, then speak his name.  The sound of our own name is the sweetest sound on earth.  When you see him, as in he picks you up or you are meeting him somewhere, greet him with his name!

6.  Bend over as in to get something out of the oven, pick something up, and while you are bent down, look back at him with that smile that says I caught you looking, mischievous like.

7.  For no reason, just make eye contact and sort of stare at him.  When he asks what are you thinking, and he will, just smile, or say it's a secret.

Flirting is an art and is far more effective done in subtle ways.  The goal is to have him think about you more.  When a man thinks about you, he falls for you. 

Another great way to flirt with your boyfriend is in a text message as well.  Texting is the most common form of communication.  You can really get his imagination going like this.  Imagination is the key to remember.  You want him to use his imagination when it comes to you.  That means you don't exactly spell it out.  You make him wonder if you meant something sexaul or not by sending messages that could be taken both ways.