About Me



I started this blog in 2009.  I had no clue what I was about to unleash with that first post.  I just remember where I was at in my life at the time.  The beginning of a journey that is constantly unfolding and changing.  A journey I have shared with hundreds of other women.  I have walked with them as they have walked with me.  Side by side through our dating/relationship trials, tribulations and yes success stories.  I have assisted many a woman through the pain of a break up and watched as they landed back on their feet , happy and joyful again.  You can find many of these strong fabulous women on my forum at lovegirltalk.com
 
I have no degrees in what I do.  I am not going to sit here and convince you that I am able to do what I do because I studied men.  I didn't.  I studied women.  I have seen the entire healing process in women from beginning, when they are just broken and in pain, to the point they are soaring again.  There is a lot of stuff in the middle there between broken and soaring and I do claim to know an awful lot about that.  I have watched the others in their stages of the journey and I have experienced this healing and understanding first hand.  I am still experiencing it.

I was a moderator on a woman's forum for two years. When I landed on the forum I had a great relationship with a great guy.  I was happy and I had all the answers for the ladies there, oh yes I did.  Then out of the blue, I get dumped by this great guy that I just knew I was spending the rest of my life with.  Oh boy, I didn't know squat.  I am not a depressed person, quite the opposite.  I didn't know what to do with all that grief.  I also noticed I was not alone on that forum.  It was not small by any means.  There were about 20 women wondering the halls of the threads there going through the same thing.

So, I created a thread.  I had read a book by Bob Grant and had adopted his No Contact policy in his book.  I started a thread called "No Contact Starts Today". The rest is history.  Amazing things started happening and it's too much to put here, maybe a book one day.  Anyway, hundreds of women landed there in that two year span.  I still have that thread in another place, my own forum now and I still nurture it.  It's my passion.  All heart broken are welcome there.  We have even had a few men land there.  They are human too, I promise.  Men are amazing actually once you come to understand them.

So all of these blog posts are inspired in some way, shape or form of my many many experiences, aha moments, and my own personal growth.  To the many many women who inspired me, and men too of course, thank you!


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