Monday, May 20, 2013

How To Flirt With Your Boyfriend Tips!

Flirting is fun and it's a great way to build attraction, yet few know how to do it effectively.  Most go about it blatant, not understanding that less is really more.  Flirting should spark their imagination and peek their curiosity.  I will share a few tips that will stir his heart and endear you to his heart.

1.  Talking sofly, so that he has to lean in to hear you.  Whisper in his ear.

1.  Pull on his sleeve when walking beside him.  A gently tug.  This one works on him on a subconscious level.  Done with a slight laughter, even more effective.

2.  When the opportunity presents itself, lean into him with you head slightly on his shoulder briefly.  Maybe again you are walking and he says something sweet, lean into him with head on shoulder and just sigh or say Aw.  This activates his natural protection mode.

3.  Look at him from over your shoulder, that looking back look when you can.  This is powerful.

4.  When sitting beside him, cross the opposite leg and barely brush his upper calf with your foot. Also angle yourself towards him a bit.

5.  Answer the phone with "well hello, then speak his name.  The sound of our own name is the sweetest sound on earth.  When you see him, as in he picks you up or you are meeting him somewhere, greet him with his name!

6.  Bend over as in to get something out of the oven, pick something up, and while you are bent down, look back at him with that smile that says I caught you looking, mischievous like.

7.  For no reason, just make eye contact and sort of stare at him.  When he asks what are you thinking, and he will, just smile, or say it's a secret.

Flirting is an art and is far more effective done in subtle ways.  The goal is to have him think about you more.  When a man thinks about you, he falls for you. 

Another great way to flirt with your boyfriend is in a text message as well.  Texting is the most common form of communication.  You can really get his imagination going like this.  Imagination is the key to remember.  You want him to use his imagination when it comes to you.  That means you don't exactly spell it out.  You make him wonder if you meant something sexaul or not by sending messages that could be taken both ways.