Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Texting Guys

It seems that in today's technology we spend a lot of time texting, it is easy and if done correctly, can enhance the attraction of your guy.

When texting a guy there are a few guidelines to follow. You do not want to come across as needy or desperate. Below are some things to remember.

1. It is best not to text first, at least on a regular basis, this shows you are way more into him than he may be into you.

2. If he does text you first, don't reply immediately, he will be thinking, wow, she must be sitting there holding the phone just waiting for me, we don't wait for men, we are busy. Wait at least 10 minutes, minimum, create some anticipation from him.

3. If he does not text back don't send another one, you don't want to appear desperate

4. Nothing serious or questioning in a text. Always be light, fun and witty.

5. Do not send anything too sexual, he may be sharing with his buds and never send nude shots, you can bet his buds will see this. It can sit in his phone for eternity and no telling where that pic may end up.

6. Don't send mindless lame messages such as what are you doing? What's up? He will see that as an excuse you are using just to talk to him.

Texting guys can create some incredible attraction if you know how to do it correctly. You can have a guy dying with anticipation to see you. There is a right way and a wrong way.

Mike, the Master Dater wrote a great little inexpensive book on this. It explains how a guy sees your messages and the right and wrong ways to get his attention. This book is well worth the read. For more information click here.

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