Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Flirting on Facebook

The good thing about facebook as opposed to those on line free and paid dating sites is you get a better glimpse of one's personality. They are out there interacting with others with no lame written profile that may or may not be true. You have references that come in the form of friends. You don't get that on a dating site. Facebook flirting is by far safer and actually more effective than the dating sites. You just have to perfect it, it is an art form to a degree.

So how does one go about flirting on facebook? It's simple, it's just a matter of commenting on a post. It may be a post of someone that sparks your interest or it may be a friend commenting on the original posters post. I have many a times commented on a friend's post where one of his or her friend's commenting sparked my interest. The result usually is a new connection.

Think in terms of everyone has single friends, brothers and sisters. The more you broaden your network, the greater your chances are. Pay attention to the comments, wait for the opportunity and toss in your witty, humorous facebook flirt. This process will not progress as quickly as it could on an on line dating site, but anticipation often builds the attraction. The result is more than likely better quality matches and dates. Flirting on face book can get the ball rolling and greatly increase your dating life.

So go ahead and try some facebook flirting, you have nothing to lose. If you can flirt in a text you can certainly succeed at flirting on facebook. More and more couples are hooking up on facebook. Don't just sit back and wait, take some action, try some facebook flirting.

I am a single woman very active on facebook. I have experienced success with getting dates on facebook by the simple art of being able to spin some pretty good flirty words, much like flirting with text messages. It is fun and I have been sharing this with others both men and women of all ages. For more details on how to make facebook work for you in your dating life.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Will He Propose?

The truth of the matter is almost all men secretly want a commitment, they want to love and be loved. They don't want to be alone. They want to find that woman that will create an amazing connection. A feeling that he just can't stand to spend his life with out. They crave this just as much as we women do.

Many women think that a man should just know to ask for a deeper commitment and marriage. They are left disappointed when he does not propose after sometimes years into the relationship. Men don't instinctively know this, they have to be inspired on a deeper level. You wonder will he propose. If you have inspired him on this deep level then the answer is probably yes.

Often women try to have the talk or lead a man with words. Men don't respond to words and actually are excellent at tuning you out. It's actions and the ability to make him feel safe. If you are trying to use words and still wondering will he propose, the answer is probably no, he may not.

Women also give too much too soon, they move in, and start taking care of the man. He gets comfortable and is not inspired to move things forward. Why should he propose? He has it all already. If you are already playing housewife, there is nothing to move him forward or for him to look forward to.

If you have inspired your man on a deep level and really open up to you, then yes he will probably propose. If you are still having those doubts and still question will he propose, you might have some work to do.

Stop being the girlfriend and go to wife. What if you could burn an image of marriage and commitment in your man's mind? What if you could learn to melt his resistance away and never have to worry about will he propose again?

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Texting Guys

It seems that in today's technology we spend a lot of time texting, it is easy and if done correctly, can enhance the attraction of your guy.

When texting a guy there are a few guidelines to follow. You do not want to come across as needy or desperate. Below are some things to remember.

1. It is best not to text first, at least on a regular basis, this shows you are way more into him than he may be into you.

2. If he does text you first, don't reply immediately, he will be thinking, wow, she must be sitting there holding the phone just waiting for me, we don't wait for men, we are busy. Wait at least 10 minutes, minimum, create some anticipation from him.

3. If he does not text back don't send another one, you don't want to appear desperate

4. Nothing serious or questioning in a text. Always be light, fun and witty.

5. Do not send anything too sexual, he may be sharing with his buds and never send nude shots, you can bet his buds will see this. It can sit in his phone for eternity and no telling where that pic may end up.

6. Don't send mindless lame messages such as what are you doing? What's up? He will see that as an excuse you are using just to talk to him.

Texting guys can create some incredible attraction if you know how to do it correctly. You can have a guy dying with anticipation to see you. There is a right way and a wrong way.

Mike, the Master Dater wrote a great little inexpensive book on this. It explains how a guy sees your messages and the right and wrong ways to get his attention. This book is well worth the read. For more information click here.