Monday, June 27, 2011

How to Make Him Want You

If you are wondering how to make him want you, then you probably have a sort of crush on a particular man or maybe you have been on a few dates and really like him and want him to feel the same.  In other words, you want him plain and simple.  You want him to want you too.

There is no secret formula on how to make him want you but I do have some advice that will help you.  First get it out of your head that there is anything specific you can say or do to make him want you.  There isn't.  Men don't respond to words, but they do respond to distance.  This means they are far sighted.  They see you best when you are far away.  Sound crazy?  Not really. 

Think about the last time you were told by a man that he missed you, really missed you.  It's because you weren't there correct?  If a man misses you, chances are good he really wants you to start with so how do you use this to make him want you?

The answer, you always remain just slightly out of reach.  In other words, don't make him a priority at all, not if he isn't on the same page as you yet.  If he asks you out, to hang out what ever, I know sometimes you just are dying to say yes because you so want to see him.  Consider saying No sometimes.  You have other things to do.  

Men want what they can't have.  Ever seen a guy mopping over a girl he couldn't have?  I bet you have.  Yet there is one right there with him that would make a wonderful loving girlfriend, but he wants someone else.  Why is that?  It's human nature, that's what it is.  

It's like playing the slot machines.  A man loses a few spins, but wins one every now and then.  It's just enough to keep him going and keep him playing.  Anticipating the big win.  He keeps pulling the handle down.  You are the slot machine to a degree. 

Speaking of anticipation, that is another key as to how to make him want you.  Anticipation engages a man's imagination.  A man's imagination is where he falls for you at.  If he isn't granted access to you at all times, he will be more apt to anticipate when you are together.  Anticipation is a very strong aphrodisiac for sure.

There is nothing you can wear, say or do to make a man want you, well unless you tell him you are not wearing panties.  Then he of course wants you right then and there, but that isn't all you want I am sure.  You want to be the woman he adores









 

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