Friday, September 16, 2011

How to Meet More Men

If you wonder how to meet men and you claim you never meet new men, this can be fixed. I know you have heard the phrase that if you stop looking he will appear. I am not so sure about that. I do think though that if you are only focused on meeting men, you are missing out. The secret lies in meeting people, not just men.

The more people you meet, the more you broaden you horizons. People know other people that you don't know or haven't met yet. The woman that works down the hall has a brother, son, or some single male in her life. The male co-worker has a best friend that is single or divorced. Everyone knows single people. It only makes sense to make it your effort to meet people in general and it will greatly increase your chances of meeting more men.

That being said, speak to everyone that crosses your path. Men, Women and Children. Focus on giving to others as opposed to focusing on meeting or finding a man. Smile and be friendly. Practice this with everyone. If you go into a convenience store, chat with the cashier. If you are shopping strike up a conversation with anyone. Yesterday I was in the grocery store and there was a lady talking to herself over the chicken. I simply commented to her, "So you talk to the chicken too?" We struck up a nice conversation.

Speaking to everyone also does something else. It boosts your social skills and helps with your confidence, not to mention increases your sense of well being. It's proven that humans are social creatures. We are happier when we interact with other humans. A happy woman is an attractive woman. Being a happy woman is the how to meet men.
Men are naturally drawn to happy women. The negative woman who spills nothing but negative energy is not attractive to men at all. Interact with all humans, be polite, be friendly, shine your light. When you direct your positive energy outwards towards others, a transformation begins to happen inwards. You start to glow and shine because you are happier.

Happy people attract more people. Like attracts like. If you want to know how to meet men, the secret is in focusing on meeting not just men, but all people. We are all connected, it is said by 6 degrees. In other words, the man that is for you more than likely is only 6 people or less away from you. Pretty simple concept really.
There are some women out there that are man magnets. They have no issues meeting men and seem to just be a man magnet. New Flash here, it's not about looks, it's something more. Some women repel men and don't know why, while others are women men adore.

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