How To Keep Your Man Happy - A Huge Key

So, how to keep your man happy?  Many come to me asking for advice as to what they can do to keep their man happy.  Many are thinking along the lines of what can they do for him or give to him that will make him happy.  They are missing the key by a mile.  Doing things for him or giving him gifts does not necessarily make a man happy.  That is what makes a woman happy.  Men really aren't wired like we are.  Over giving or over compensating can have a negative affect on a man.  He begins to feel obligated.  This is often when over time you will hear the man say something along the lines of "You deserve better".  By over giving, you are setting yourself up for this famous line.

A huge key in keeping a man happy is in appreciation.  Show him and tell him you appreciate him.  Not by giving back to him, but by simply appreciating him, even in the simplest ways. I think often we let the little things slide.  Then he stops doing the little things and we are left searching for a way to get it back.  Then you express verbally the little things are missing.  This just reinforces to him that he can't make you happy.  Oh the vicious cycle begins here.  Then comes the distance, then you asking even more what's wrong, him feeling even more he can't make you happy.  The fastest way not keep your man happy is for him to feel he can't make you happy.

I got an email the other day from a young lady telling me her boyfriend just didn't do the little things he used to do.  He no longer opened her car door, she hadn't gotten flowers in months, he never sent her thinking about you text and the list went on and on.  I asked her had she ever mentioned to him that she really liked the fact that he opened her car door or told him it made her feel really warm inside.  Of course she hadn't.  Her response to his thinking about you texts was always "thinking about you too".  Had she told him instead that she loved his texts and how they enhanced her day, chances are slimmer that they would have stopped. Men not only love feeling appreciated, they need it to thrive in a relationship. 

When I show my guy I appreciate him, I swear he grows 3 inches taller.  He beams and gets this satisfied look on his face.  The result, he never stops doing those amazing little things.  We need these amazing little things ourselves to thrive in a relationship.  Inspire him to give you what you need.  Tell him next time he does something simple for you.  The rewards are quite worth it.  This is a key on how to keep your man happy in a relationship.  Men really are easy.

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