How To Make a Man Happy

What makes a man happy?  Most women searching for this answer on the web are hoping to find something they can do or a certain way to act that makes him happy.  Some search for ways to make their men happier in the bedroom thinking this is a way to make him happy.  It doesn't hurt, I will give you that.  It's not the key to a man's happiness though.  The key to a man's happiness does not lie in what you can do for him, or what or how much you give to him.  It's more about what he can give to you that makes him happy.

I am going to share a little story about my friend Dee.  Dee is a pleaser.  We all love a pleaser, they make life so much easier don't they.  Does all their giving though make you happy?  Don't you really feel happy when you are the giver?  Men are no exception to this rule.  Dee I suspect even looks for small reasons and things to give her man and I must say, he is now drifting away and she doesn't get it at all.

I went with Dee to a cookout at her guys house.  Dee was calling offering to bring something, or stop by the store.  He said he had it covered.  Then she thought ahead.  They might run out of beer.  She stopped and bought a case to take.  We got to his house and she pulls out a bag that I didn't know was there.  Inside were some odds and ends, cooking utensils, extra ashtrays, just stuff.  She thought these things would make him happy.  

He didn't ask her for anything, he just invited her to a cookout.  These extras were in his mind sort of telling him "I know you said you had it covered, but just in case".  If she wanted to truly make him happy the best thing she could have done was to show up and enjoy herself and let him know how much she appreciated it.  Appreciation is huge to men by the way, a key in how to make a man happy.

Here comes another issue with the above situation.  She always brings things over, does things.  In her mind she is giving and then when he doesn't give back, she is disappointed.  Next thing you know she may be complaining and wondering why he doesn't do the same for her.  Resentment created by your own hands.

If you want to make know how to make a man happy, consider letting him make you happy instead.  That's all men really want, to be able to make you happy.  That is the secret to how to make a man happy.  When it begins to seem like work to make you happy, the thrill is gone.