So you are in the dating pool again. I am sure you want to be smart about it. There are so many mistakes we can make and sometimes face it, we aren't the best judge of these dating partners. We accept men into our lives who are commitment phobics, or players, or worse have some sort of addiction. We are in over our heads before we realize it and then the heart is involved and it's too late. How to avoid this.
When you are dating men, first off don't put all your eggs into one man's basket too soon. Lots of times a woman will go on a few dates, really like the guy then she stops dating others. She wants to give this guy a shot. That's all fine and well, but hold on sista. Do you really know yet if he knows how to handle your eggs?
Chances are if you have put all others on hold and placed your eggs all in this one guys basket you have just made a big mistake. This is a huge responsibility for a man. Eggs are fragile, if he has them all and drops the basket, well now what? Men don't want all this responsibility. Not right out the gate. I mean if a guy had just been on a few dates with me and said here is all my eggs, I trust you will take good care of them I would be a bit overwhelmed.
You scatter these eggs, meaning you date other men. Your goal is to pick the man that best takes care of your eggs. If a guy truly wants to invest into you, well he is going to want to move your eggs himself. You won't have to do it for him.
So look at dating as finding the man who can best take care of your eggs. If he values you he will be willing to work for those precious eggs and put in the investment to take care of them. Don't put the eggs there for him. Just keep dating until you find a man willing to invest into you and your eggs.
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