He Won't Propose, Boyfriends That Won't Commit

Often, they get comfortable. They have all of the benefits of marriage with no threat to take away their freedom. Men fear a loss of freedom and sometimes this is the driving force that keeps them from commitment. What has to happen here is they have to have a bigger fear of losing you. The fear of losing you has to be greater than their fear of lost freedom.

He won't propose because he thinks things are fine the way they are. If it's not broken, why fix it? As a girlfriend, you probably give a lot into the relationship. They often take this for granted. They get confident that you are not going anywhere. When they get to this point girl, you better watch out. Don't let it get to that point. If he does you better get to work fast before some woman who keeps him on his toes comes along.

Go from Girlfriend to Wife!

If your boyfriend won't propose and it's been year chances are that he won't, not unless you take drastic measures. I am sure you know you can't keep doing the same thing and expect different results. It may be time to lite a fire under his butt. You don't do this with words though. You do it with actions. Men do not respond to words, as you probably already know. I imagine you have talked until you are blue in the face and still your girl friend crown has not been replaced with a diamond. Men respond to distance and perhaps it's time to put a little of this to work. You boyfriend won't propose with you doing the same thing.

If he won't propose, it is discouraging. Your biological clock may be ticking, you may be wondering if you are wasting your time and should you move on. You may be scared to rock the boat because you might just lose him. Let go of that fear and start to work. Men do want a commitment but they have to be inspired to do so and being the perfect girlfriend isn't cutting it is it.

Learn what it takes to make a man commit. Don't risk losing him to another because you can't inspire him to propose. If he hasn't done so yet, learn what leads him to feel you are the woman he can't live without.