Why Men Break up with Women

I read about it every day. Women wondering what are the reasons men break up with women. How do they just shut if off like a light switch? What is he thinking? We wonder how he could just fall out of love so fast.

There are many reasons men break up with women, but the main common denominator is this. They just aren't feeling like you are the one. They don't have enough burning desire to make you theirs. It takes a lot of things to create this desire. They have to feel safe, trusted, loved, but not smothered. They have to feel they are still free beings to commit.

Usually the underlying reason that men break up with women is they start to feel responsible for the happiness of the woman they are involved with. She starts expecting more, wanting to know where she stands. This tells a man loud and clear that she is letting him dictate the relationship and that she is dependant on him for the outcome. A woman who does not need a man for her happiness is much easier to be with, much easier to feel safe with.

Many women make a career out of being dumped. They may last a few weeks, months, maybe even a couple years but the ending is always the same. If women would take the time to learn how men really think, they could break this pattern and stop being the one who is dumped. When a man tells a woman "it's not you, it's me". He means it is you. Isn't it time to figure out why?

Learn what attracts and keeps a man's desire burning for you. Stop watching them move onto another woman and wondering why. Learn to be the woman men adore.