Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Signs That He is Not Interested

It really seems difficult to read the signals these guys send and to know if he is interested or not. Especially when one day he is texting like crazy and the next day you hear nothing from him. He was interested yesterday, so what happened to today? First off texting is not always a sign that a guy is interested. When a guy is texting you often but not actually trying to make plans to see you, you can bet he is just keeping you on the back burner. Giving you a big enough crumb to save you for a rainy day. Don't fall for it, if he keeps texting, stop answering. If he wants to talk, he can pick up the phone and make a date. One of the signs that he is not interested is perpetual texting with no follow up action.

Now guys do get busy sometimes and they don't usually require that everyday contact that we as women come to expect but if he vanishes for days or weeks that is a sure sign he is not interested. When a guy likes you, he does stay constant in his contact. He is not going to waiver much there, someone else might just snatch you up and he won't risk it. If your guy is not in consistent contact, he is not that interested.

If it has been weeks since he made a serious effort to see you or if you are doing all the work making the get togethers happen there is another sign. Think about it, you are interested and you want to see him, so what would make it different for him. An interested guy is a guy who makes an effort to see you, if he doesn't, well that's another one of those signs he is not interested.

If you are having to question whether he is or is not interested, chances are good he is not. When a guy is interested you don't question this, you just know, by his actions, not his words. When trying to figure out if he is or is not interested, watch his actions, turn off the sound and ignore his words.

Wouldn't it be nice to get his interest and keep it. Do you know what the biggest attraction and interest killers are in dating? Find out and turn it around, let them be the one guessing if you are interested or not.

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