Think of the shiny red sports car. The guy had to put in some serious hard work and some long hours to pay for that car. Is he going to let anyone else drive it? Not a chance. He is very proud of that car. So do you want to be the pretty red sports car or just another beat up clunker that he wouldn't think twice about loaning to his buddies.
Playing hard to get with a guy is not a game. It's all about having a busy life, not putting his needs first and not being so available. If your time is valuable to you, it will become valuable to him. A hard to get woman does not stress over missing his call, nor does she jump through hoops to text him back. This is incredibly attractive to guys and they find a confident busy woman attractive. You want to be hard to get, but you want to be easy to be with.
If you are not a natural at playing hard to get with guys, there are some basic you can follow to help you.
* don't accept last minute dates, very important in the beginning dating stages
* don't answer his call every time
* don't text back right away
* don't text him first
* never ever change you plans to fit his schedule
* don't not make plans because he might want to do something
* stay busy
* don't ditch your friends, ever
* always end the conversations and dates first
* don't wear provocative clothing, leave something to his imagination
* flirt a little, but not too much, smile often
* do not have sex on the first date or early on
* Don't apologize for not calling, or texting etc...
You want him to know you enjoy his company but your world does not revolve around him, your world revolves around you. You want him to get the impression that you are fine with or without him in your life. You adore men, but you don't have to have one to survive. That is the kind of woman men find so very sexy. That is the key to playing hard to get with guys.
Don't be a doormat, be hard to get. Don't lose another guys interest because you have not mastered this skill.
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