If you keep getting dumped or hearing the line, it's not you, it's me, it's time to come to reality. What these guys really mean when they tell you this is that it is you. There is something that you are doing to kill the initial attraction. Maybe you are coming across as needy, insecure or maybe he senses drama ahead. Often we are not aware of the signals that we may be sending to men.
There are many mistakes that women make to push men away or send out these signals unknowingly. If you are doing most of the initiating calls, plans and texts, a guy will not feel you are a challenge. He may start off dating you or even enter a form of relationship with you, but if a guy does not feel challenged, his interest will fade fast.
If you keep getting dumped ask yourself are you dependent on a man to validate you and make you happy. Does he feel responsible for your happiness and that your world revolves around him? If you are always available and put him first, he starts to feel uncomfortable. A man finds a woman with walking power and a life of her own that he is incredibly drawn to. These confident, happy women rarely get dumped.
Men value that which they work hardest for. If you are too easy, you become just like all the others. To stop from getting dumped, you need to be different than the other women, you need to stand out. There is a saying, the one who cares the least in a relationship holds the power. There is a lot of truth to this statement.
Stop getting passed by and learn what a man fears the most, and what makes him run for the hills or to another woman. Learn how to be the woman he adores and never wants to leave
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