He Loves Me But He is Not In Love. What Does This Mean?

Have you ever heard those words, "I love you, but I am not in love with you"? What does he mean when he says that. When you love someone that is like a friendship type love but what is it that makes a man feel "in love" with you? The missing element here is a deep level of attraction. Attraction has to be felt by a man for him to be in love with you. You can be the most beautiful woman on the planet though and the man still can not feel the attraction. What is it that makes a man feel attraction and fall in love?

While looks and physical appearance is important and does draw a man in the beginning, it's not what makes a man fall in love with you. It's your presence. I am actually quite sure of this. You can be attractive, don't get me wrong, but I am positive without a doubt that is not the thing about a woman that can draw them in. The thing that draws them is how you make them feel with your true authentic self. It really is all about how you make them feel when they are around you, it has nothing at all to do with your appearance, that is just a door opener.

Do you make them feel safe? Safe to open up. Do you make him feel as if you accept him for who he is? Do you stir something in him that makes him want to make you his and his alone? What signal is your presence sending him?

When a man tells you he is not in love with you, he is saying he does not feel "it" with you. He does not feel that level of attraction that would keep him around and nothing you say can change this. If you try to talk him into loving you, it will never work. It will push him further away and reinforce why he isn't in love you to start with.

Men fall in love with feminine grace. They fall in love with the way they feel when they are around you. They fall in love with your essence. It's not what you do or say that makes a man fall in love.

You as a woman, by virtue of your femininity, have in your hands the delicious power to make a man fall in love with you, influence a man to your way of thinking, bring him to his knees, make him want to spend his life with you -- and want to fulfill your every desire.

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