Evan Marc Katz has a book called Why He Disappeared. This is one of the most practical, no nonsense dating books on the market about men and how they think. Katz tells it like it is as to why men disappears. He explains how men form attachments and what attracts them and keeps them attracted.
After reading this book, you will see so much of how you may have went wrong in approaching men and relationships. He explains how sometimes it's not about attracting the wrong types of men, but often more about accepting the wrong types of men.
We attract all types of men, but often we screw up by accepting them too soon. We just roll into a comfort zone with them right off the bat. They come on full speed ahead and we fall right into it. Next thing you know it feels like a relationship, yet he just up and disappears. What happened.
The way he saw it was not the way you saw it. Your perception of what was happening between the two of you doesn't match his. Men live in the moment. They are driven by sex. Most men will admit to jumping in too soon, having sex and not thinking it through or of the consequences. Instead of being hard on them, understand how to make this work in your favor.
Why He Disappeared!
Men have their escape route planned ahead of time. If they start feeling smothered or getting cold feet, they have an out. They can always say, "I never made a commitment or I never said we were exclusive". This way they hold onto the fact that they didn't really lead you on, despite if their actions told you otherwise.
Why He Disappeared!
In Evan Marc Katz's book, he tells it like it is and sheds light on why he disappeared.
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