What makes a man fall in love with one woman and not another? Is there a secret recipe to making a man fall in love with you? Yes, I think there is.
Women get left all the time by men. They often hear the words. "I am not eager for a relationship", or else "It's not you, it's me". Weeks, or months go by and you suddenly hear he is in a relationship or even engaged to another.. Wow, what just happened? Does she have something that you don't have?
I have heard the following phrase and it's the key to it all. Men fall in love with your absence. This is so very true. In order for a man to fall in love, he has to think about you, a great deal. If you are with him every free moment, well he might be enjoying your company, but he isn't really thinking about you.
When I say thinking about you, imagine longing. He longs to be with you. He replays the time you had together over and over in his mind. He can not long to be with you unless you are absent at times. Have you ever heard the words from a man, " I can not stop thinking about you". If you have, I bet he said it over the phone when you weren't in his company. This is the start of a man feeling an emotional attraction for you.
If you are dating a man and you see him every chance you get, if you are forever waiting by the phone or changing plans for him, you might want to rethink this. While this may work at the startor it seems, it is not what causes a man to fall for you. It isn't what propels him to commitment.What makes a man fall in love is the emotional attraction he feels for you. For this attraction to grow, you need to give him a little resistance. He needs time to yearn for you, think about you, recollect memories. These are the things that weigh on his emotions, because face it, men aren't emotional by nature.
We often propel into the future, imagining ourselves with this guy, men will not do this. It's a truth, they just do not. You need to activate his imagination to go to work for you and this can not be done by being up his behind every minute you can. You do this by not being with him every minute you can. If you are not with him, let him wonder what you are doing, even if you are only washing your hair. Love starts in the imagination of a man.
What this does is kick his hunter instinct in full gear. Men really do love the thrill of the hunt. They love competition, even if he is just competing with your girlfriends. They start to focus on attemtping to make you fall in love with them, what happens is, they fall in love with you. Men hardly ever fall in love with the woman who offered up no opposition. She is the one they sooner or later leave for another.
So this being said, when dating, it is crucial to not put your things at his place. Never see him every day. Once or twice a week is enough. Do not act like his girlfriend until he has shown you he is willing to invest into you. Have a life outside of his and be happy about it. This is what attracts a man and makes him fall in love.
Well that's a rather different way to make a man fall for a woman, Carolina. Absence makes the heart go fonder, as they always put it. It's quite important to be subtle in this context. Barely seeing him, once or twice a week as you said, would be enough for him to miss the girl. And the moment the girl meets the guy, she should look at her best. Even if it means dropping by at the cosmetic dentist or a hair makeover, these are very well worth it.
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