The best way to get a relationship with a man is simple. Tell him you don't want one or that you are in no hurry. Don't mention relationship at all is you best bet.
Telling him you aren't looking for a relationship works in a couple ways the first one being obvious. It challenges him for starters. When a man hears a woman say she doesn't want a relationship or is in no hurry, he becomes intrigued. He wants to know why. If you play your cards right, you convey to him that you just aren't willing to settle or jump on the first guy that comes along.
This triggers his hunter instinct and we all know most men want what they can't have. He often makes it his mission to see if he can change your mind. He starts to prove his worth to you to win you over. Often he falls in love in the process.
It also disarms him. Men are so used to women pushing for commitment that they will be taken back by the woman that doesn't. It makes you stand out. If you want a relationship, don't let on to this so soon, inspire him to work for it. He will value what he works for.
The last thing that telling a man you don't want a relationship does and why it works is because it makes him feel safe. He doesn't have to live in dread of the day you will have the talk. He is free to have fun, he is free period with no threats. This causes him to let his guard down. This is when they fall the hardest, when they feel safe and because he feels safe he moves on into the water. Next thing he knows he is in a relationship and she never had to say a word.
This is how you get a relationship.
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