I suppose I could start this post with, well if you have to ask "How do I know if he loves me", then he must not be in love. I do realize though that many women are confused on this topic. They get mixed signals or what they interpret as mixed signals and analyze it to death. Does he love me? Is he falling in love with me? He told me this and he said that. What does it mean?
First it's about actions actions actions. Words really are easy to say. Men are also taught to tell women what they want to hear. Does he back up his words with actions is the key here. When he says he will call, he does. When he asks you out, he follows through and doesn't leave you guessing. If you want to know if he loves you or not, watch his actions.
A man in love goes out of his way to make his woman happy. He may give up a night with the guys or a sporting event to go shopping with you instead. It was his idea. If you have to badger him, it doesn't count. He wants to spend time with you. He makes the effort to make sure it happens. He includes you in his life, family and friends.
He is proud of you and hides nothing about you. He may even be proud that you have your girly stuff at his house and doesn't chase after you to make sure you leave no evidence behind. It's okay to keep a box of tampons under his bathroom sink. He actually welcomes it.
If you are taking a man's words and tearing them apart trying to figure out how he feels or how to know he loves me, you are wasting your time. It's not in his kiss. It's not in the great sex, it's in his actions.
First it's about actions actions actions. Words really are easy to say. Men are also taught to tell women what they want to hear. Does he back up his words with actions is the key here. When he says he will call, he does. When he asks you out, he follows through and doesn't leave you guessing. If you want to know if he loves you or not, watch his actions.
A man in love goes out of his way to make his woman happy. He may give up a night with the guys or a sporting event to go shopping with you instead. It was his idea. If you have to badger him, it doesn't count. He wants to spend time with you. He makes the effort to make sure it happens. He includes you in his life, family and friends.
He is proud of you and hides nothing about you. He may even be proud that you have your girly stuff at his house and doesn't chase after you to make sure you leave no evidence behind. It's okay to keep a box of tampons under his bathroom sink. He actually welcomes it.
If you are taking a man's words and tearing them apart trying to figure out how he feels or how to know he loves me, you are wasting your time. It's not in his kiss. It's not in the great sex, it's in his actions.
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