Ever been crazy about a man who is in and out of your life. He spends the weekend with you or maybe a night and it's just incredible. The chemistry is over the top and you feel such a connection. Then he just disappears for days, weeks at a time, only to reappear again down the road to repeat it all over again. It's baffling, so what is going on here?
This is a man that can't not only commit to being with you, he can't commit to being without you either. In other words, he just can't commit, period. Many women stay in this situation hoping he will come to his senses. They convince themselves of all the reasons he could be doing this. Work is stressful, he is busy, he has family issues. The reasons could be many. The truth is though, he just isn't ready to commit or willing to commit.
By allowing this man to come in and out of your life leaving your heart all over the place, you are accepting his crumbs on his terms. What are your terms? Is this enough for you. Many women get in too deep and next thing you know years go by and it's still the same ole thing. They can't fall for another man because their heart is too wrapped up in this man.
A man that comes in and out of your life or a man that disappears on you is not seeing you as a priority in his life, there is no other reason. If he isn't committing because of being busy, working, family issues, whatever, it's because he doesn't want to. Men do exactly what they want to do. He is more than likely just keeping his other options open.
This is a hard situation to be in. Why he disappeared is really not that much of a mystery as most women make it out to be. The mystery may lie in why do you allow him to do this? Why he disappeared.
This is a man that can't not only commit to being with you, he can't commit to being without you either. In other words, he just can't commit, period. Many women stay in this situation hoping he will come to his senses. They convince themselves of all the reasons he could be doing this. Work is stressful, he is busy, he has family issues. The reasons could be many. The truth is though, he just isn't ready to commit or willing to commit.
By allowing this man to come in and out of your life leaving your heart all over the place, you are accepting his crumbs on his terms. What are your terms? Is this enough for you. Many women get in too deep and next thing you know years go by and it's still the same ole thing. They can't fall for another man because their heart is too wrapped up in this man.
A man that comes in and out of your life or a man that disappears on you is not seeing you as a priority in his life, there is no other reason. If he isn't committing because of being busy, working, family issues, whatever, it's because he doesn't want to. Men do exactly what they want to do. He is more than likely just keeping his other options open.
This is a hard situation to be in. Why he disappeared is really not that much of a mystery as most women make it out to be. The mystery may lie in why do you allow him to do this? Why he disappeared.
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