Often we find out too late that he isn't ready for a
relationship. By all appearances he seemed to be, but months down the
road, he tells you he isn't ready for a relationship. Shouldn't you
figure this out before investing time into a man. Shouldn't you find out
if he is ready for a relationship sooner than later. Although it
doesn't guarantee eternal bliss, it sure will save you more heart ache
than not. Jumping into a relationship without knowing the answer to this
question is self-abuse.
You can tell if a man is ready for a relationship by his actions. Sure they talk a lot of talk, but do the actions match the words. A man steady in his forward movement towards you shows positive signs that yes he is ready for a relationship. The man who is inconsistent with his calls, the man who disappears, is giving you signs he is not ready. The smart thing to do in this case is to dump him and go out and find a man that you don't have to ask is he ready for a relationship with. Sadly a lot of women hold on, hoping he will change, falling hopelessly in love with his potential and not the man himself.
If you offer up resistance and he still pursues you, that is a sign that yes he is ready. By offering resistance, I mean mainly not changing your life around to accommodate him. If you keep your independence and he still keeps coming forward, he is ready for a relationship. If he pushes you to change your routines, or if he stops trying to fit you into his life when you offer up resistance, he is not ready for a relationship. Go find someone who is please.
If a man acts proud of you, you can count on his readiness for a relationship with you. If he introduces you to friends. If he even brags to his friends of some of the silly things he has done for you. Men often do this in a joking way. If he refers to you as the boss with a smile on his face, he is proud of the hold you have on him. A man not ready for a relationship will brag about how he won't do this or won't do that for a woman.
A man ready for a relationship won't do this. He may hold onto his independence, but you won't hear him bragging on it. Why He Disappeared!
You can tell if a man is ready for a relationship by his actions. Sure they talk a lot of talk, but do the actions match the words. A man steady in his forward movement towards you shows positive signs that yes he is ready for a relationship. The man who is inconsistent with his calls, the man who disappears, is giving you signs he is not ready. The smart thing to do in this case is to dump him and go out and find a man that you don't have to ask is he ready for a relationship with. Sadly a lot of women hold on, hoping he will change, falling hopelessly in love with his potential and not the man himself.
If you offer up resistance and he still pursues you, that is a sign that yes he is ready. By offering resistance, I mean mainly not changing your life around to accommodate him. If you keep your independence and he still keeps coming forward, he is ready for a relationship. If he pushes you to change your routines, or if he stops trying to fit you into his life when you offer up resistance, he is not ready for a relationship. Go find someone who is please.
If a man acts proud of you, you can count on his readiness for a relationship with you. If he introduces you to friends. If he even brags to his friends of some of the silly things he has done for you. Men often do this in a joking way. If he refers to you as the boss with a smile on his face, he is proud of the hold you have on him. A man not ready for a relationship will brag about how he won't do this or won't do that for a woman.
A man ready for a relationship won't do this. He may hold onto his independence, but you won't hear him bragging on it. Why He Disappeared!
If a relationship is what you seek, stop wasting your time on men
who aren't ready. If men disappear on you, it's time for you to end
this madness and find out if it's you or if it's simply the men you are choosing to accept into your life. Why He Disappeared!
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