Sunday, August 7, 2011

Top Sign He Wants a Relationship

If you want to know if he wants a relationship with you or not, it's about how you feel. How he makes you feel. When you lay your head down at night are you guessing and wondering or do you feel safe and secure and know that he will still be present happily in your life tomorrow. Seems too simple doesn't it? It's really not.

A man that wants a relationship with you makes sure you are happy and content. If you find yourself feeling ansty and doubtful over things like will he call or not, or if you will have a date over the weekend, he may not be moving towards a relationship. Men that see you a girlfriend material will not dream of keeping you in distress or a place of wonder. Part of their purpose in life becomes your happiness. Men love to make the woman they love happy.

The best relationship advice I can give is to pay attention to your gut. If something feels off, it usually is. If you feel at peace, you usually are right about that as well. So if you are happy with your man and feel wanted, trusted, and adored, that is one of the best signs he wants a relationship.

If on the other hand you worry, or spend time analyzing his actions and aren't happy for the most part, he may not be headed for a relationship with you. Men put us in 3 basic categories.

1. Miss Right Now. Someone to date until someone more interesting comes along
2. Miss Good Time Girl. A woman he can have sex and a good time with, but not forever.
3. Girlfriend or wife material. A woman that inspires him to commit and a woman he can see forever with, maybe even babies or at least a rocking chair.

If you aren't feeling secure with your man, you may be in category one or two. You gut can answer this for you. Again, if you lay your head down at night and just know he will be present in your life when you wake up the next day, that is one of the best signs that he wants a relationship with you.

There is an exception to this rule though. The Drama Queen. I have to mention her. She is the woman that no matter what the man does, she doesn't feel secure. Maybe she has been cheated on in her past. This woman does things like check out his Facebook page and question about every woman on his wall. She whines when he chooses doing other things over her. If he doesn't include her in everything, she gets bent out of shape. She thinks all of his and her free time should be spent together. She may check his phone messages and email even. She spends countless hours analyzing him and his every move, then questions him to pieces on them.
This Drama Queen will eventually run the man off and there is no mentally healthy man that will remain in this relationship forever. If you are one of these women, get help now or you will never know what peace feels like in a relationship.

If you want to see the signs that he wants a relationship with you, look inside and pay attention to have you feel. The heart does not lie.
So many women spin their wheels wondering does he like me or not. Does he want to be with me or not and where is the relationship heading. If you want to be his forever do what many women before you have done, myself included. Find out what it is about some women that can hold a man's heart and become the woman he adores.

The Women Men Adore and Never Leave

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